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A Stifled Voice Severs Agency, Belonging, and Hope
The weight of silence and the power of speaking up Originally posted (October 29, 2025) Psychology Today I once completely lost my voice, on a flight from New York to London, and spent the next week having to communicate through gestures and mime. Without a voice, it became difficult for me to express what I thought or felt or needed. For humans, the voice acts as a fundamental tool for communicating a spectrum of meaning, emotion , and intention to others. Beyond a physica
Leigh W. Jerome
4 days ago5 min read


The Trauma-Bonded Citizen
Stockholm Syndrome in the cultural psyche. Originally posted (June 27, 2025) Psychology Today Trauma bonding is a type of attachment rooted in abuse. It is a well-documented psychological phenomenon where an abused person forms a powerful emotional connection to their abuser via cyclical periods of alternating mistreatment and kindness, or idealization and devaluation (Dutton & Painter, 1981). In this paradoxical attachment, the victim develops a strong sense of loyalty and
Leigh W. Jerome
4 days ago6 min read


Wishing Doesn’t Make It So
Magical thinking, unchecked, can lead to poor judgement and decision making. Originally posted (September 2, 2025) Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202509/wishing-doesnt-make-it-so Most all of us engage in small acts of magical thinking without a second thought. Perhaps you make a wish before blowing out birthday candles, knock on wood after tempting fate or resist certain words or actions that you fear could be a “jinx.” These ri
Leigh W. Jerome
4 days ago5 min read


10 Signs That a Partner Could Be a Hater
Spot the signs of unhealthy relationships and make better life choices. Originally posted (May 6, 2025) Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202505/10-ways-to-know-if-your-lover-is-really-a-hater Originally posted (February 2o, 2025) Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202505/10-ways-to-know-if-your-lover-is-really-a-hater There is nothing like a positive relationship. Relationships are fundament
Leigh W. Jerome
4 days ago6 min read


Learning to Think in a Made-Up World
Critical thinking supports psychological, intellectual, and societal resilience. Originally posted (March 26, 2025) Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202503/learning-to-think-in-a-made-up-world We are living in a chaotic time with global upheavals, political realignments, quickening technological advancement, and information overload. Further, AI is developing at an accelerated pace. We are exposed to more deepfakes, misinformation,
Leigh W. Jerome
4 days ago5 min read


Navigating Chaos in Uncertain Times
When faced with ambiguity and chaos, we crave safety, but flexibility is the key Originally posted (February 2o, 2025) Psychology Today...
Leigh W. Jerome
Mar 125 min read


Intergenerational Shame and Other Secrets Passed Along by Your Parents
Healing from intergenerational trauma is a relational experience Originally posted (January 26. 2025) Psychology Today...
Leigh W. Jerome
Mar 125 min read


How to Live in the Present Moment and Stop Worrying So Much
World events can elicit distress. Living in the present moment is an antidote Originally posted in Psychology Today:...
Leigh W. Jerome
Nov 20, 20245 min read


Rediscovering Wonder: How to Spark Adult Imagination
Imagination is a Super-Power able to Boost Creative Potential & Transform Us Originally posted in Psychology Today:...
Leigh W. Jerome
Nov 20, 20246 min read


How Do You Know What You Know?
Exploring different types of knowledge and ways of knowing KEY POINTS There are many different ways that people come to understand the...
Leigh W. Jerome
Nov 20, 20245 min read


Why Does it Hurt to Feel Lonely?
“When one tugs at a single thing in nature, they find it attached to the rest of the world.” (John Muir) Originally posted in...
Leigh W. Jerome
Nov 20, 20245 min read


For Valentine's Day, Learn Your Mind-Body's Love Language
Interoception is how the mind and body communicate about our internal states. KEY POINTS Interoception is how we understand our mind-body...
Leigh W. Jerome
Mar 13, 20244 min read


How to Resolve Most Any Conflict: The Solution (This post is part 2 of a series)
Mastering the five essential steps for conflict resolution. KEY POINTS Miscommunication is inevitable in human relationships and often...
Leigh W. Jerome
Mar 13, 20245 min read


How to Resolve Most Any Conflict: The Problem: Part 1- The Problem (or, Why do we fight so much?)
KEY POINTS Communications between people are subject to bias, perceptual filtering, and misunderstanding. Misunderstandings can cascade,...
Leigh W. Jerome
Nov 6, 20235 min read


How You Can Tame a Raging Fight-or-Flight Response: How to manage a fight-or-flight cascade
KEY POINTS Fight-or-flight is a normal response and has evolutionary advantages. Exaggerated fight-or-flight responses can contribute to...
Leigh W. Jerome
Nov 6, 20236 min read


From Melting Minds to United Hearts: How Global Warming Wreaks Havoc on the Body and Mind, and Solid
KEY POINTS Climate events directly impact our physical health and mental well-being. The direct and indirect effects of climate change...
Leigh W. Jerome
Jul 18, 20234 min read


How to Transcend Self-Doubt and Negative Self-Talk
Originally Posted: March 21, 2023 (Psychology Today) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202303/how-to-transcend-...
Leigh W. Jerome
May 5, 20234 min read


How to Coax Post-Traumatic Growth (It’s not so much what happens to you, as what you might do next)
Originally posted: (February 13, 2023) Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202302/how-to-coax-po...
Leigh W. Jerome
May 5, 20234 min read


How to Recognize Negative Thought Cycles and Stop Obsessing
Originally posted (December 23, 2022) Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202212/how-to-recogniz...
Leigh W. Jerome
May 5, 20234 min read


How to ‘Listen to Your Body’ for Resilience
Originally posted: (September 4, 2022) Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-stories-we-tell/202209/how-listen-you...
Leigh W. Jerome
May 5, 20234 min read
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